Natural beauty and ageless sex appeal looks effortless. Keep a clean, fresh and easy style to achieve it. Avoid trendy clothes and keep apparel simple instead. Use natural makeup colors, and make sure to show off the best features of your figure. A curvy figure is sexy
When a women gets into her forties, fifties, sixties … it’s not like she stops caring about her looks. If she is anything like me, she still wants to look sexy and full of life. Women don’t suddenly forget about their looks. That is why anti-aging is such a huge trend for baby boomers right now. I actually think that sex appeal becomes increasingly more important to a woman as she matures! I believe you can look amazing as you age but you have to have the right confidence, attitude and style to pull it off. It is a matter of how you feel about yourself as well as your willingness to devote at least some time and attention to your health, appearance and style.
Animal print zebra and leopard patterned clothes are not sexy
The photo on the right, while it does look very sexy with the natural makeup and wavy auburn hair, is a don’t mainly because of the zebra T-shirt. I had this shirt in my closet from decades ago and pulled it out for some don’ts. It is true that such a shirt is playful, however it gives the wrong connotation of a little too sexy, bordering on sleezy. I do not like animal print clothing on older women. I don’t like zebra print dresses, skirts, tops, or accessories. If you like that kind of thing, try to get just a detail of a print, like the piping or a tiny accent. The whole top is too much. I also don’t like animal print jackets, purses, pants, etc. Both leopard and zerbra prints are too loud. So are cheetah prints, cow prints, giraffe, tiger, and other animal design inspired clothing. It is too busy and is a distraction. If you are a rockstar, cleaning out your house and need an old tshirt to ruin, or doing a don’t web site like this one, then you can wear it.
You can be sexy in jeans and a tshirt
A woman can look sexy in a pair of ladies blue jeans. Sexy jeans and a body hugging T-shirt can actually look fabulous on virtually any womans body type. It’s far easier to look hot in jeans and a t-shirt than it is to look hot in a bikini – especially if you have some figure flaws you need to disquise. At one point I had the photo (shown to the left in this post) displayed on a dating web site where men could vote on images. The image on the left got a consistently high ranking from men, so it is logical to ask the question – Why? The answer is that tight clothes that fit well show sexy curves – you can accentuate a curvy chest waist and booty without having to wear fancy clothes. But they do have to accentuate your figure. You want to accentuate an hour glass figure.
First of all, my figure is slender (yet not too thin) and shapely. There are some curves. The good news is that there is no expensive clothing in this photograph. A woman can look sexy in just a pair of worn out jeans and a tank top. Clothing brands mean little to most men, its your womanly figure in the clothes that matters.
Natural Beauty looks as though you are not trying that hard
Secondly everything in the left hand picture looks natural. You want to look good yet you don’t want your effort to be blatently showing. If your hair, skin, makeup and nails look natural but still amazing, it gives it an effortless effect and that’s sexy. Victoria’s Secrets models are sexy but obviously they didn’t really roll out of bed into the catalog picture did they. But the goal is to make it look like they did. We’re no Victoria Secret models but that doesn’t mean we can’t learn something about what they’re doing. That photograph on the left has that effortless effect to it that the picture on the right lacks. My skin tone looks natural, the makeup looks natural, and my nails look natural. Some skin is showing for sure, but it is not like I am busting out. In fact, smaller busts as they look in this photo actually make you look younger. The fake ‘bolt-on’ breast look is definitely out. Lastly, my hair looks longish, natural and sun streaked.
The photograph on the left definitely shows sex appeal in a natural fun playful way and reminds me of the look that the Sports Illustrated swimsuit models have (only, I’m 25 plus years older!). There you go, that is my theory on why men liked it so much. I am going to prove to you that you can look very sexy even if you are an older woman. You don’t need a big budget for designer clothes to look sexy either.