Walking shoes and comfort shoes are the single biggest ager ever! Mix it up and for special occasions try some sexy higher heels or straps and rewind the clock a decade. When shopping to buy shoes pay attention to both how shoes look and how shoes feel! Some comfort shoe brands try hard to make stylish shoes for women, make sure you get the best looking ones!
Do you wear stylish ladies shoes or fuddy duddy and frumpy walking wedges?
As we get older don’t we hang on to our creature comfort items for dear life? One of the wardrobe items that we adults cling to is comfortable shoes. I mean, we have to walk on our own two feet every where and we need to nurse our aches and pains. We need softness and comfort for our feet. I personally have a constant wish to keep my feet warm as well. So, once we get a comfortable pair of shoes, our feet mutate right to those shoes when it is time to go into the closet and put shoes on. The only major big problem with that is that it looks bad! It does not help your beauty at all (and may embarrass your spouse or children if they care).
Comfort lady Shoes verses Sarah Jessica Parker Sex in the City Shoes
The matter of unsightly comfort shoes is not so ridiculous to point out. In fact, somebody decided to start an entire aesthetically pleasing comfort shoe line called “Easy Spirit”. Barring buying Easy Spirits, I think it best to try and match socks and shoes to each other, and check to see if your shoes clash with the clothing you are wearing. If your shoes are a neutral color at least they won’t stand out and look so blatently bad.
Consistent color is important too – if you have green shoes, a black purse and a brown belt, your mismatched mode will make you appear sloppy. Simple colors like beige, brown and black work best. Thick strapped sandals with comfort wedge soles and a few buckles scream fuddy dudy old lady walking shoes. Shoes with excessive jewels or busy ornamentation on them also spell … old. Don’t wear tacky tourist costume footware. You should be looking for shoes that are comfortable and that have an overall simple design with maybe a little stylish flair to them.
These seemingly innocuous details are actually major reasons why you might look old and disheveled instead of young and put together. Of course if you are standing on your feet all day you need shoes that feel good. Just remember when you do shop for those working or walking shoes, try to get the best looking comfortable ones you can find. If you have a special date or night out, please push yourself (as will I) to wear some sexier shoes and be the attractive woman that you are. Something as simple as putting on a sexy pair of shoes can instantly transform you from not to hot!
Sex in the City shoe fetish personality – you either have a designer shoe fetish or you don’t
Do you ever notice those women that are always dressed to the nine’s fantastic? They seem to have some sort of edge on the rest of us. Some ultra sex appeal that sends them over the top. Well, if you break it down, sometimes that type of woman is taking that extra step, going that extra mile, on her looks. We would call that “workin it”. It is something to keep in mind. Women that look smashing might be wearing those ultra high heels, she might have done her hair or put thought into what she is wearing. Sometimes that extra effort really makes you pop. Next time you see a woman that looks amazing to you, take a closer look as maybe it’s more than her just classic beauty. Maybe she is making more of an effort to work her looks. Think of a black boot and how sexy a black boot with a thinner heel looks on a woman as compared to a low thick boot heel. Men love femininity and heels are a major way to exude your feminine side. It’s really attractive.
If you are a tall woman you can add sex appeal to your shoes even with flats or lower heels. Just go for pretty flats or strappy leather sandals. Straps and small details can really make the shoe look better. You don’t want to start buying only high heels that you never wear. But, keep in mind that when you shop for your everyday shoes, if you pay attention to detail and get something really pretty, it is going to look that much better on you. All the details of your outfit make the difference as to whether you look smashing or not.
Are you a High Heeled Woman? If not, try to fake it until you make it!
Some women are high heeled women, and some women aren’t. It is one of those elusive things that maybe you’re born with or not. I have a neighbor who is always wearing pumps. I look at her in awe every day, thinking, wow. How does she do it? Some women just are better equipped to be into high heels. They have the Sarah Jessica Parker Sex in the City Shoe love affair. Maybe we (the mom shoes folk) aren’t born with the high heels gene, but nonetheless, we can rise to the occasion sometimes! Don’t let age stop you from a little bit of va-voom. Heels look beautiful on older women too, not just young ladies. Men at any age appreciate when their woman looks sexy on their arm.
High heels are sexy so why pass up the opportunity to look like the incredible woman you are. Wear high heels on a hot date night out.
As a fitting footnote to this post, I’ll go over for your entertainment, reasons that men find women in high heels so undeniably sexy. High heels make women look taller and appear to have longer legs. It contracts the calves giving even them a nice shape too. It forces the gluteus muscle in to a different and preferable shape, essentially highlighting your rear end. It makes women look more womanly and vulnerable. It forces a women to take smaller steps to stay on balance giving a sensual swing to her body as she walks. Finally, we all know that in high heels we can’t run from that man that fast enough (hehe). Humour aside, it’s always good to get that womanly sex appeal going and put on a pair of high heels. If you have a good opportunity or event in which you can to it, you should.

Shoes make or break your outfit. Frumpy shoes, though comfortable, make you an old lady. These are mom shoes, with some cozy mom socks thrown in. Shop for comfort and style!
